Do you believe in second Chances ? if so why all the hate for DUI First Offenders?

Everyone drinks and drives if you are an occasional drinker.You go to a party have a drink and drive home which is legal as long as you aren't over the limit. I don't think this 1 mistake should screw someone's whole life up on it's first offense as if they've just commited murder. Everyone on YA are quick to say i hope u go to jail. Let's see if you feel that way if one of your children goes through this experience. NONE of you are Perfect and if God forgives So should you all.